I Got Distracted At Target

Me: Alex, help me find this neck lotion that is for old lady necks.  I’ve noticed I’m getting that old lady neck thing.  I’ve got to get ahead of it now, because I don’t want to have to wear scarves for the rest of my life to cover it.

Alex: (in misery): Mom you look fine.  We’re here for DETERGENT.

Me: It’s for the sensitive neck skin.  Did you know that’s a thing?  I didn’t and now they’re telling me I need to take special care of it.

Alex: Mom– you look fine.  You’re fine.

Me: Alex, you see that there are a million beauty items in this store and every product is telling me I’m an old lady and I need to do something about it!

Alex: Mom, who’s telling you that?  Don’t look at all the marketing.  You’re falling for it.

Me: They’re ALL saying to me, “Dang girl you’re old.  Do something about it!”

Alex: Well, I’m here with ya.  They must be saying it to me too, but I don’t listen.  You shouldn’t either.  You’re FINE!

So, moral of the story; I don’t need that crap!  It’s all the beautiful packaging and clever marketing that is making me feel less than I am. 
He is SO smart.  
I AM fine. I LOOK fine!

(I bought the neck cream anyway.)

Author: Admin

I was happily married for almost 24 years. My husband and I had were raising two children. Shortly before our 24th anniversary, Tom died suddenly of heart attack. My world stopped. With kids (ages 16 and 13) there isn't the luxury of mourning at my own pace. I had to roll up my sleeves and help each with their own grief all the while managing mine. It is very hard. I am sad that some of you may have found this blog as you are trying to navigate your own traumatic event. Let me be here for you. Grief is fickle. Just when you think you are strong enough to manage a second, a minute, an hour, Grief changes her mind and punches you in the gut. You are not alone. I'm going through it, too. I am here for you.

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